What’s the difference between a desire and fulfillment? Your perspective relative to the object of desire. If that’s a person, desire means you view yourself far away. Fulfillment means you view yourself together with them. If it’s money, desire means you view yourself as not having enough to use the money for your goals. Fulfillment means you’re abundant in money and you have more than enough to pull strings where you see fit. If it’s a personality trait or a way of being, desire means you don’t believe you deserve to be that, so you don’t allow yourself to be it.
Desire is begging, seeking. Fulfillment is allowing, accepting. Allow yourself to be worthy. Accept that you have what you want. Feel deeply that it’s already true. That’s how you change states.
Allow, accept, feel. If you get stuck on a step, meditate on what allowing, accepting, or feeling means.
Allowing it, to me, means you see it as a possibility for yourself. It’s something that doesn’t disgust you. If you were that, if you had that, yes you would be a different person, but that’s someone you might enjoy being. You might allow yourself to be that way, and to have that life.
Accepting it means you willingly receive it, and you believe it’s now yours. You know it’s true. This can take time, but one way is to imagine yourself being that way already. That’s why SATS is so powerful. Daydream. Do whatever you need to do inside yourself to believe it.
Feeling means you feel it in your body enough that your body behaves as if it’s true. I’m not saying you must act a certain way in order for your desire to be reflected, but if you really are that new person who has the thing you want, you’ll naturally spend your time differently.
It’s one thing to know and feel that it’s true, and in truth, that’s over half the battle won. Another facet of this work is mental diet. It’s more than just positive thinking. You must also think from the perspective of fulfillment. That is, if you think of the new house that you want, you should think things like, “I’m so grateful to be living in my new home,” “My new bedroom is so inviting; I’m going to sleep very well tonight,” and “Who would be the happiest if I invited them here to hang out?”
Very often people will feel they have something, but when their mind thinks of it, they say things like, “I wonder when I’ll get to see what my new house looks like,” or “I hate living here. When will I be living there?” You should always think of the new house in a way that implies you already have it.
When you know you have it, you feel you have it, your body is acting as if you have it, and your mind is thinking as if you already have it, you’re completely done. Because this is how you would feel, how you would act, and what you would think were it already yours. You’re aligned. You’ve begun to shift, to travel. The final step is to persist until it becomes reality in the secondary world, in the outer world. Travel takes time. You’ve bought the ticket and you’re on the right train. You will surely arrive when the train stops at your destination.
Persist in all of these things: knowing, feeling, acting, and thinking. At first, your senses will still show you evidence that what you’re believing is not true in the outer world. But you already know the true world is the inner world, and is it true there? Of course, it is! It already is so within. So persist. Then the day will come when your senses will agree with your inner reality, and you will be able to say that you have walked by faith, and not by sight.
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